Sunday, July 28, 2013

LOVE


I titled this blog Love, simple and direct. All my soul, mind and body is full of unconditional aspiration and growth  My prayers are stronger, my mind is stronger, my life is stronger. Without love and inconsistency I would be at a dead end. I love the power of love, I also love the power God gives us to  make choices. Making bad choices in our lives, it is meant to happen. From what I have learned, its not suppose to flow and be a straight path. Without bad choices, we wouldn't have a story to tell, neither a testimony to share to others.

 The desires we have throughout out life can either make us or break us. Love  isn't pain ,nor deceit. No matter where you're from, your nationality, belief culture. Love is Love.I've made many mistakes in my life, but one thing I have learned is despite out of all the hurt Ive endured, the inner struggles Ive encountered as a woman. I Always understood the meaning of what Love is, and ran away from anything that didn't show it.

Many people have their own definition of what love is,what I might consider love is not what the other person defines. Let me help you, love is exactly what my bible reads. Love is kind,  never fails. Love is not being physically involved with someone without commitment, nor is love angry, bitter, and betrays you. Love isn't feeling trapped or in danger with a significant other. You should not fear love, nor should you be afraid to love and receive it. Love is action, not words. We use the word love very loosely, but the tongue is powerful , use it wisely.

Love is consistent action.When I think I love, I really think about children who might not have love at home, who might feel abandoned from their parents. Ive met and even have close people in my life who never had their parents tell them " I love you". Love starts at home.You might know someone that might grew up not even meeting or having a relationship with a parent,When they get older its hard for them to show what love is. Understand, you can break that cycle. It starts with understanding what love is, and praying for a change within. I have shared in my past blogs my first marriage, and the things I dealt with as a young wife. It involved adultery, infidelity , physical and verbal abuse. My spirit was broken, my heart was full of pain. But let me tell you, God is faithful. I have always made sure I fall on my knees and ask God to guide me, because at the end of the day God is Love!  No consular, or therapist can understand you better than the Most high. You can only be delivered from him not man. Learning to love yourself fully, will open  and heal your heart. I have had my heart broken a few times in my life, but I also realize that having a broken heart taught me a few things; recognize the pattern I put myself in, and to prioritize whats important. What  might be important to you is not what God has planned for you. I love me. I love everything he has ordained me to be, I love all my trials and tribulations, all  my storms and rocky times. I love the fact God has empowered me to be this queen that I can lead by example to my daughters. Therefore I know the meaning of true Love. I love hard, I don't love easy. I love my husband wherever he is, I claim a beautiful healthy God- fearing marriage that lasts until God calls me home. 

My prayers for the woman that might be yearning for Love or a husband, Don't be desperate for a Man, but desperate for what God has in store in front of you. My best friend is the love of my life, doubt only equal fears, and I fear no man but God.Naysayers, and negativity stray away from. Focus on all you desire. -

1 Corinthians 13:4-8
 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.  Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.

Peace

MB